Dear April - You were rough and I'm glad you're gone.
Personally, it helps me to think things through month by month, in the hope that things with change once there is a new month. Does this always happen - no, but it gives me piece of mind and hope for a fresh start.
I'm going to start this months goal's differently with things that I’m leaving behind in April.
- Bad Relationships: one great thing about being an adult is that if you don't like someone you don't have to keep them in your life. I'm no longer putting in the effort for people who don't put in the effort with me.
- Drama: This goes hand in hand with the above. Be careful who you vent to.
- Collegian: I'm righting a post on this now and how I think this fad is garbage. To be continued.
Travel More - I need to get out of the OC bubble. I want to love where I live and currently it’s not happening. All of my best friends (let’s be real here all my friends) live out of state and I want to see them more.
Life/ Work /Blog /Balance - I love my job I’m obsessed with it and with the people I work with but I need to make some balance. This goal will help me to get where I want to make my big goals happen.
Keep Your Head Down and Work Hard - Simple enough but easier said than done. My goal is to work hard and be nice to people even if this means not always sticking up for myself.
Live in the Now - I need to not only always see where else I could be or what else I could be doing.
Focus on what makes me happy - this month I’m going to work my ass off to make my blog better. Put the time and effort into my family and leave the rest behind.
Learn from my mistakes - I really need to realize that mistakes are a good thing in the long run. If you’re not making mistakes you’re not learning. I’m not perfect and far from it. But, being a perfectionist that is not perfect at anything is a hard pill to swallow.
Focus on my own happiness - I say my own but I mean my family as well. Family and my happiness is what matters....nothing else.
That’s not all I know this goal list will grow and hopefully I will too. I’m looking forward to my future and leaving the rest behind.
Hope you have an amazing May.
May all the things in your control go your way and may all the things not in your control not worry you.